rpanons | help meme please

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i'm "the smart and responsible one" in my family and i'm tired of having to clean up messes and solve all the problems.

fake example: a dumb relative could say they're gonna practice learning to fly by jumping off a roof and they won't listen when i tell them that's fucking stupid and dangerous. then if they get hurt, it's suddenly my fault because i didn't try hard enough to stop them.

i'm also getting neurotic af because people nitpick on my flaws like wow, how dare i not do everything perfectly??? how could i ever??? make??? mistakes???

i've started going No Contact on the most annoying ones but it's impossible to avoid because too fucking many of my relatives are like this. and some of them are such doormats they'll try to bring the NC ones back into my life. oh hey, i came to visit, and guess who i brought along???? uwu

fml i need to find a better fake family so i can ditch these people. my siblings are probably the least terrible so i'll keep them.

...also, i have a pimple under my titty and it's sensitive as fuck. i'm lucky i rarely get face acne ig but it's usually on my ears, under my tits, on my shoulders, or on my back. rarely i'll get one somewhere else, like my groan area? or my fucking lower arm for some reason? i wash my hands up to my elbow out of habit so idk. almost tempted to put clearasil everywhere above my waist a few times a month...

Put a warm compress on that zit, nonny, and wash your day bra every night. Wear a clean shirt to bed, too. The groin & lower arm ones might just be ingown hairs, in that case exfoliate at least once a week and use a moisturizer that won't clog pores.

I feel you on the crazy fam, too. Mine just use me as their agony aunt and if I try to add anything about my life they get angry about it or make fun of me, then whine that I'm secretive about my life ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ fuck 'em

this is driving me nuts. "wash your day bra every night," please explain. do you only have one bra? do you have night bras??

... people wear bras at night? why??

my tits are to and fro as we speak

yeah the very first thing i do when i get home from work is take off my bra. i'm not wearing that thing a moment longer than necessary.

Because if I didn't, my boobs would be at my bellybutton and that feels awful. It would also hurt to do anything more than slightly active, like going down a staircase.

I have a set of night bras. After a bra has done its duty and had the elastic worn out to the point where it's jiggle central and would no longer be presentable for day wear, it becomes a pajama bra. It's basically just a comfy boob hammock at that point, and is comfortable to swap out for the hardware that makes my tits defy gravity for the general public.

ayrt

Some women wear the same bra a couple days in a row vs swapping out, esp if they're of the itty bitty titty brigade and don't get underboob sweat. Or, more unfortunately, if they're just straight up poor. Some also wear bras at night, like a few of my really busty friends do. A trans friend wears his binder at night. I'm not passing judgement here if someone does any of the above, it's just a suggestion if op is in that camp.

omfg, mine too when it comes to my personal life.

i don't talk about it with certain relatives because it either goes in one ear, out the other so it's pointless; or they make fun of my shit. then when they realize they don't know much about me, surprise! it's my fault and not theirs. why so secretive, anon??? it's not like i'm a shitty listener or anything!

cw for zit/body grossness

i bumped one of huge zits and it started bleeding so i wiped it with alcohol pads, put some antibiotic ointment on it, and put a bandaid on it. guess i'm lucky it was a white bra? time to break out the peroxide and maybe the bleach if necessary.

i wear a bra to bed instead of a shirt because the heat's too much for me lately. any recs for a titty/general skin exfoliater? never dealt with titty zits until the last few years and i'm in my late 20's. i swear, i had mild face acne during puberty and now that i'm an adult, it's in those certain areas i mentioned. i wash my face everyday so i don't deal with face acne unless i get lazy for a few days.

ayrt

fuck, yep, this is mine all over, jfc. i'm so sorry. i can absolutely say it isn't your fault, and you deserve so much better than that.

oh! you can just use a bit of detergent and cold water to hand wash blood out. it just takes a bit of elbow grease if it's set in for a bit. that sounds so painful though, ow

so for exfoliants i have a mitt i got from daiso and use a sugar scrub with it (used to use one by soap & glory but their breakfast one smells like cigarette ash and their lime one isn't made anymore :c), but alba botanica makes a decent papaya enzyme face mask that's really great for sensitive skin. slap it on after washing, let sit for a few minutes, rinse off, you're done. also do a patch test ahead of major use, just in case. some people are allergic to that particular enzyme.

i know it's not my fault, that's why i avoid the worst of them. if i talk about myself and you try to one-up me or make fun of me, guess what, i don't want to waste my time with you. i'll hang out with better people and not people who think they're entitled to my time just because we're related.

i tend to lie about where i am so they don't pop up at my house. sorry, i'm at work. at a friend's house. at a doctor appointment. at a work meeting. oh no, working overtime! caught the flu, friend's taking care of me at their place.

thanks, i hadn't considered a mitt. i've seen them in stores once or twice but figured i wouldn't need it. then my tits decided to prove me wrong. i do have some charcoal salt scrub i left at a friend's house i could take home, might wait to use it until my titty heals. i don't have any sugar scrub on hand.

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