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I’m so uncomfortable with my own body and the idea of being naked in front of anyone else that I don’t think I’ll ever want to have sex with another person. I’ve been wondering if that means I’m asexual, because I still have enough sex drive to get off on my own, but the thought of doing it with anyone else makes me super self-conscious. Which sucks, because the amount of people out there okay with a nothing but kisses and cuddles relationship is incredibly low.

I'd be fine if I never had sex again. I do a better job and I smell better than anyone I've been with.

But...

I'm the weirdo that doesn't want to makeout. Cuddling is fine, but do not put your mouth on mine. We were so close to perfect, anon.

Oh I hate making out. Kissing on the lips is fine, but I hate having someone’s tongue in my mouth. The guys I dated in high school seemed to love that shit and I just...eugh. No ty.

I don't want to touch mouths at all. I don't mind being kissed anywhere else, though. A kiss on the cheek is sweet.

it's fine anon, you just have issues, and most of us have issues. some of us want to work on our issues and some of us are fine with the status quo. my issue is that like the other anon I don't want to kiss, I just want to bump uglies and then leave. that's a big issue. I don't want to work on it, I'm fine with where I am.

my dream relationship: the other person is super into cuddles and moderately into kisses and sex is infrequent but when it is it's usually just being really handsy with each other's bodies and ends with mutual masturbation and is whatevs whenevs

it's not that i dislike sex but i know my body way better than anyone else and i'd rather share intimacy in other ways and leave the orgasming to the expert. i'm really not very horny irl though and masturbate mostly just to help myself go to sleep or get periods over with faster.

this would probably work great in a lesbian relationship but i'm straight as an arrow so fml i guess :(

i guess maybe not entirely straight? i love boobs and would cuddle with a big pair of knockers all day but. i love dick...

give me a rl big titty futa ig lmao

i feel like "asexual" is such a gray area anyway, especially for women. you can have just a really low sex drive or very specific sexual desires but that doesn't mean you want to have sex and could live the rest of your life content not having it ever again

men seem the most hung up on diverging any sexual thought = you must want sex, probably because society conditions them to think that's the end goal and life's purpose and meaning for everything.

being uncomfortable with your body =/= being asexual

you probably need to see a therapist

And please don't take this in a rude way. But being self-conscious, even to an extreme degree, is not what defines your sexuality. This is an issue you should consider talking to a therapist about, and could potentially work through with a partner if you were comfortable with them.

That said, if you're not sexually motivated enough to care to work through those issues, there are a lot of people in the asexual community who still like dating and want to find partners, so it's not as hopeless as you think.

The problem is finding a therapist that doesn’t fucking suck I’d like finding a needle in a haystack, and I’ve been burned before.

don't be jelly i was a handmaiden of satan in another life

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