oh yeah, i'm not expecting tags every single day because i can't always tag every day myself and i know that life happens and sometimes you come home from work and stare at your inbox and then go watch cat videos on youtube instead. but when it's consistently 4+ days between tags, it makes it impossible to build cr or have threads go anywhere. i don't mind that happening occasionally but i don't want half my cr to consist of me pming people to ask how a thread went because we never got more than six tags in. when that happens in a first thread it makes it really awkward to try to tag that character again because i have no idea how my character feels about theirs or how their interactions are likely to go.

i could buy it being summer vacations and hiatuses if i hadn't tagged some of these people a couple of times in different months and gotten the same response. it's just really frustrating.