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"I'm sorry, I just don't think this is working out." When someone asks why, what they want to hear is whether it's a problem that they can fix by talking it or.

There's no fixing falling out of love, so the best and kindest answer to why is "there is no one specific reason, it's just not working." They really don't need the list of little fuckups that slowly killed things for you.

yeah, i just hope that answer will suffice. they're the type of person who would insist on hearing the specific reasons so that they could fix it. if it does come to that, i guess i just have to tell them in a straightforward manner, but... god. i wish there were an easier way.

If they push, mention what you said above. That the petty comment stung and while you forgive them it got you thinking more. That should clear up that you do forgive them for what they did, but it helped you to see that things weren't working.

It sounds a bit like when a couple has a bad argument over something petty and then ends up divorcing. It actually happens a lot that some petty slight lets two people see they really have larger issues that may not be resolvable other than agreeing to part ways.

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