rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2016-05-03 11:35 am

You sound fat

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(Anonymous) 2016-05-09 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
everyone i've ever known who has said that has always caused the most conflict

i'm triggerd by you

da

(Anonymous) 2016-05-09 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
i feel like there's two different kinds of "ignoring conflict" and which kind you actually hate says it all

one is the kind of ignoring where you genuinely don't let the conflict bother you and you move on and pay attention to more important things

the other is the kind where you say you're ignoring it but in reality you've just catalogued the "wrongdoing" against you and filed it away for future use, while "de-escalating" the conflict to a war of passive aggression, using your apparent ignorance of the conflict to show how much better you are than the other person

if you've met a lot of the second type, i would not blame you for saying you hate avoiding conflict, because what you actually hate is omnipresent but conflict that nobody can let go of but nobody wants to admit to either

if you hate the former kind, then you need to get over yourself and also probably let go of your pathological need to win arguments