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No, that's not how demisexual works. People who aren't demisexual are going to experience physical attraction from the get-go. That's just how it works. Not acting on it is what's different. Demisexuals literally do not experience any physical attraction until a strong emotional bond is formed.

The only one slut-shaming is you because you can't stand the idea that you have a degree of physical attraction to people who may want to date.

>People who aren't demisexual are going to experience physical attraction from the get-go.

you don't actually know any people in real life, do you?

No, I know people in real life. You're going to experience a degree of physical attraction. You think your SO is attractive, right? That's. That's what physical attraction is.

Yes, but that doesn't mean I want to go diving in every marginally attractive vagina that I come across.

Also demisexuals do feel physically attraction even if we want to pretend its a real thing so why are you fucking this irrelevant chicken.

yes, i think the person i have a relationship with is attractive

i'm not sure what point you thought you were proving with that example

I'm not always physically attracted to everyone I meet that I'd like to date. Sometimes that's something that develops over time. I'm not anywhere near asexual and I would have never had thought to come up with a special word for this before tumblr came around. A lot of people who are heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual are like this. It's really not that uncommon. Maybe some sort of weird societal pressure makes you think having a sexuality means you want sex all the time and you experience attraction instantly, but I promise you it doesn't work that way.

Attraction =/= wanting to have sex all the time, jesus CHRIST what is with you and thinking that attraction means you want sex right the fuck now? Libido and attraction are separate goddamn things.

Learn about psychology and biology, please, because you obviously don't know how it works.

they think everything is like the movies, and being attracted to someone means you want to fuck them right now

No one is saying that besides you.

I have never not been attracted to anyone I've been with from the get-go. You're lying or ace or demisexual if you think you weren't. The only one who's obviously offended is you by raising your hackles at the idea that maybe not everyone experiences attraction right off, or that you may have some degree of physical attraction.

Thinking someone is hot and not just aesthetically pleasing? Guess what? That's physical fucking attraction.

stop

i wish i had a life so devoid of problems that i had to make up a fake sexuality to score oppression points on tumblr in order to validate myself.

I wish I had a life so boring of problems I had to shit on other people to entertain myself and validate my own unsureness of my sexuality by bashing something perfectly legitimate because I'm that damn insecure about where I fall on the sexuality spectrum.

I'm honestly not sure which side of this quote-unquote debate you're trying to mock with that comment.

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lol

demisexuals are straight white girls who desperately want to feel oppressed like the minorities they fetishize. the end.

Nah, I know plenty of other minorities who're demisexual.

and i don't always drink beer, but when i do i drink dos equis.

"Not acting on it is what's different. Demisexuals literally do not experience any physical attraction until a strong emotional bond is formed."

Lmao oh my god. Surprise: that's NORMAL. Ffs this is tumblr overreacting to bogus social expectations wrt sex and attraction anyway so why don't you stop making up names for normal human behavior and realize the intense focus our society has on simultaneously having and not having sex is dumb as fuck. You're just like the goddamn rest of us.

You probably think anyone you want to date is hot.

Guess what? That's fucking physical attraction. Either that or you're ace.

okay, you seem to be trying to argue that thinking somebody is pretty counts as physical attraction

but for the purposes of defining things like demisexuality, it takes more than that

demis think that the rest of us literally get wet at the sight of that random pretty girl. it has nothing to do, in their minds, with perceiving her as attractive, and everything to do with a physical response. because demis are children who think that the media portrayal of arousal is in any way accurate to real life

No. They literally don't. This is literally the same argument I have seen used against homosexuals by heterosexual bigots. That's not how it works, quit trying to justify your weird hatred.

Yeah this is a troll.

>okay, you seem to be trying to argue that thinking somebody is pretty counts as physical attraction. but for the purposes of defining things like demisexuality, it takes more than that

> This is literally the same argument I have seen used against homosexuals by heterosexual bigots.

you are so fucking lost right now

that is still not a sexuality.

sexuality has to do with who you are attracted to. no one gives a fuck how often you want to fuck. sexuality is about who you want to fuck. why is this so damn hard for you to grasp?

What does that have to do with anything?

only a total pedant that we find in fandom spaces actually cares this much about this hair splitting

i can promise you the majority of people don't give a shit, and your label is useless