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But I still recognize that there's other shit out there. People were saying the exact same thing about asexuals years ago--that they didn't exist, were just attention whoring, they'd find someone they want to have sex with, etc.

then that's not equivalent to what we're saying about demisexuals. the point isn't that there aren't really people out there who fit the description; it's that it's pointless to give it a label and treat it as a "sexuality" or a movement when seriously, it's not that uncommon, and chances are slim to none you're gonna get systematically "othered", demonized, or even misinterpreted for not being interested in having sex with people you haven't already been dating/friends with.

Nice how you ignored the overall statement.

Difference between interested in having sex with and actual physical attraction, tho, btw.

and tbh, i'd probably be able to appreciate the existence of the term "demisexual" as just, like, a shorthand, could be useful for dating or social sites or whatev, if it wasn't for the fact that the way it's used, talked about, and defended is all tied up in a sucky and kind of ugly understanding of sexuality and relationships.

i'd find it very useful for dating sites. it lets me know which special snowflake tumblrina to write off immediately.

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