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wow that's kinda skeezy, especially saying he was still single during the relationship. maybe i could understand wanting to keep rabid fans away, but that's off.

is that what led to the break up?

Definitely one of the things. I only ever worked up the courage to finally call him on it (I spent a lot of our relationship too scared that he'd dump me if I called him on the things he did that made me feel bad) maybe about a month before we broke up and it never got resolved.

Ultimately, I found out he would cheat on me when he was away on tour or at an out-of-town convention. Which made sense, in the long run. Girls would talk about his flirtiness and so on, within the community, all the time but I always thought it was crazy, desperate-for-attention talk. And the few times it ever bugged me enough to bring it up, he always shamed me for paying attention to gossip.

I found out about most of that after the breakup, though. In the end, he just always kind of looked at me as beneath him (I was "just a fan" and he was an ~*artist*~) and treated me accordingly. He's also just kind of a sad, strange person who leans heavily on drama from his past to define his whole life by. I think he cared about me at least in some capacity, but I'm not sure he's someone who could ever be in a healthy, successful romantic relationship.

i'm happy for you that you moved on from him, anon. what a total creep. if he weren't over a decade older than you, maybe i'd hope he'd grow up someday but the sounds of that are unlikely.

Thanks, anon! I'm glad of it, too. The recovery process has been tough but talking through it, all the things I kind of kept bottled up the whole time I was with him, has really been helpful. So thanks for indulging me!

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