rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2014-08-13 03:33 pm

Ooo

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Re: FREE!

(Anonymous) 2014-08-17 08:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes. A few of my friends and I regularly tease and insult each other, way worse than Nagisa does to Rei or Nitori (because aside from calling them weird or boring every now and then he... doesn't actually insult or tear into them). We've been friends for 10+ years, and even got along again immediately after we weren't able to see each other for a few years. We aren't bullying and abusing each other because we're just joking around, and every single one of this knows this.

Look, you can make a point that Nagisa is crossing boundaries with Nitori, because the two of them barely know each other. He's being outright scandalous in how he addresses him so casually and gets up in his personal space. But Nagisa doesn't insult him, doesn't hit or otherwise physically hurt him, and doesn't try to intimidate him into going along with his bullshit. Nagisa has a bossy, forceful, friendly, cheerful, non-malicious personality and approach to dealing with other people. He's an obnoxious idiot but he's not cruel.

Re: FREE!

(Anonymous) 2014-08-17 08:12 pm (UTC)(link)
You can still be a bully without hitting or threatening someone. Mocking or making fun of someone can still be damaging, even if the party making fun of someone doesn't know they are being mean.

Re: FREE!

(Anonymous) 2014-08-17 08:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay, since this isn't getting through to you, let's try it from a different angle.

Name one instance where Nagisa A) poked fun a genuine sensitive spot one of his friends had and B) didn't immediately back off when they got genuinely upset about it.

DA

(Anonymous) 2014-08-17 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Insisting on calling Gou 'Gou'?

Must as I dislike Nagisa, though, I don't think that counts when, with the exception of Makoto, literally every other character in the series including her own brother and apparent best friend also calls her 'Gou'.

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2014-08-18 02:58 pm (UTC)(link)
She's also stopped correcting anyone about that.