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1. It took me just over two years to lose the full 150 lbs. I lost the first hundred in a year, and then it took me over a year to lose the last fifty.

2. They treat me a lot better and it honestly makes me sad and a bit angry. Not because I don't want to be treated better and with more smiles, but because it makes me wonder why I wasn't good enough to be treated like that before. And I'm not talking about flirting etc, I'm talking about general interactions. The world really is a kinder place to people who fall within a conventionally attractive weight. I'm not sorry that I lost the weight - I did it for myself, for my health, self esteem, and fitness, and I'm proud of what I accomplished. But I didn't expect the difference to be this significant and it both surprised and saddened me.

re: 2. whenever I think about losing weight that is actually what sometimes scares me the most; not it being difficult or me failing, but me succeeding and looking back and going oh. ouch.

anyway, thanks a lot for your answers, and congrats on your accomplishment, anon! :D

no problem, happy to help!

don't let it stop you, anon. lose the weight for yourself if you want to, not for anyone else. sure it hurts a bit, i won't lie, but the sense of accomplishment from doing something like that for yourself is well worth it.

Get over it, nerds

Re: person who has lost 150+ lbs

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