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I just want to make it clear that queerplatonic relationships are not synonymous with romantic friendships or passionate friendships, and that romantic friendships/passionate friendships have a lot less room for variety of emotional involvement, commitment, etc.

Maybe you think this is just getting hypersensitive over semantics, but words matter, especially when you’re communicating to people about what you want and need in relationships. When I say I want a passionate friendship or romantic friendship with someone, I want it to be very clear that I’m asking for a relationship involving high-emotional involvement, high levels of commitment, high levels of physical intimacy, a reciprocity of feeling and behavior that’s nonnegotiable, and a mutual valuing of the relationship that makes it one of the most important–if not the most important–relationship in both people’s lives.

Maybe someone wanting a queerplatonic relationship means the same thing, but there are a lot of people wanting a QP relationship that mean something completely different. And for those of us who want an RF or a PF, it’s important there’s clarity about what we’re looking for, so that we can–you know–actually get what we want.

ur pathetic

you literally described my relationship with my best friend and you know what our relationship is? best friends

can we just go back to calling this platonic life partners or something do we have to tumblr everything up

6/10 if you're a troll because i took this seriously enough to reply

i can't tell if this is tumblr copypasta or you are just really, really passionate about a conversation that you're the only one having

I googled it and this came up?

http://thethinkingasexual.wordpress.com/2013/09/26/differences-between-romantic-friendship-passionate-friendship-and-queerplatonic-friendships/

So either a dedicated troll or someone earnestly trying to educate about some creepy creepy AVEN bs.

I thought it was a chocolate chip

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