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Without prompting, my boyfriend just casually gave me permission to fuck one of my really cute, generally DTF lady friends who's currently having a really hard time getting laid. I'm very monogamous but also very bisexual and I really miss girls, and it just doesn't feel right to try to go for it. We haven't been friends for super long and I've been with my boyfriend for a really long time so it seems weird to throw that suggestion at her out of nowhere...

I'm probably going to pass (but appreciate my boyfriend for being awesome), but I needed to yell about this somewhere. BABES

no1curr

He wants you to do it so he can then try and get in on it at a later date.

i'm a guy, that's why i'd do this

Well, she's gay, and he's not the sort of guy who thinks that women are gay because they haven't impaled themselves on the right dick yet. That said and for the record though, I wouldn't be opposed. :o

Your boyfriend isn't being awesome. Unless he would still be okay with this if your lady friend were a dude friend. Then he'd be awesome.

he likely doesn't give a fuck about you

that'd send red flags to me, since he'd probably expect you to be chill with him sleeping with someone else, too

you're monogamous, so i assume you're not in an open relationship (or wanting to be in one). make that clear to him.

Our boundaries have been clearly defined to one another. The more comfortable I've gotten with him over the years, the less anxious and confined I feel regarding monogamy... It's not that I have a problem with the idea of us sleeping with other people, it's just that I really generally have no desire to and it's not something I've really practiced before.

"We're so comfortable with each other that he is getting bored and wants a third party,"

Anon...

He just told you he cheated on you. Now he's trying to make it even by giving you "permission" to have sex with other people, even though he didn't ask.

....what.

jesus christ, stop trying to torpedo this girl's relationship.

What? Lmao forgive me for being misleading by not giving every detail of our relationship (ambiguity can lead to mistrust and for y'all to jump to conclusions), but that's not how it works. We're both semi-open people—I just personally lean towards being more monogomous. We're also both bi/pans—I've given him the pass on fooling around with a guy friend of mine, though it ended up not working out. He's always said he wouldn't mind if I needed to fool around with a girl, but the need has never felt dire. If either of us wanted to sleep with someone, the other person would know.

We've been living together with full disclosure for two years, and our relationship started out as long distance for a little over it's first half year.

Also, in his previous relationships, he's the one who's been fucked over for being very trusting and open—and I'm saying that as a witness. Believe me, he's not some deceitful piece of shit monster. He's always bending backwards for my needs.

and that means nothing. if he brought it up out of nowhere, he probably cheated on you recently and is trying to clear his conscience in being interested in another woman.

here is a comment giving you the attention you want for being ultra special and being allowed to fuck other women when nearly every boyfriend or husband lets their wife fuck other women.

yeah, that would be weird as fuck and he probably just wants a threesome because sex with you is boring.

lmao this thread

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