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"4. Girls who go around and guys say "get your tits out!!!" - and they ACTUALLY do it!! :O give the impression to men that women are easy. Too many women these days feel pressured to take their clothes off due to the media, their friends, their boyfriends, whoever! And this pisses me off. If a lot of women didn't GIVE IN so easily, others might not either. I know what it's like to feel pressured sexually. When I've done things that I didn't want to do but felt pressured and I felt disgusted with myself for it afterwards. I wish I hadn't. I felt OBJECTIFIED. Like a slut. I did things I didn't want to but felt pressured to do so because I wouldn't be as wanted if I DIDN'T.

5. I have known men to call women a bit of "fanny" and just that. Just a "fanny". And how can you blame them when you get women in bars literally getting their boobs out for random men in front of their girlfriends! If women ACT like a bit of "fanny", they're going to be treated this way. It annoys me because these are the kinda women who say things like "oh men, why can't they treat us with a bit more respect?" - and this is a girl who will have been throwing herself at strangers the night before in public.

6. It's a FACT that people who have come abroad always ask why western women objectify themselves... just turn on your TV! Sex sells. And let's face it. Sadly western culture is all about that. Go in GT news. Top shelf. Do you see magazines FOR WOMEN? that have naked guys in them? no you don't. it's WOMEN in magazines for MEN. you even see magazines for GAY GUYS! Why should women get naked for men and NOT the other way around?? They're not doing it for us.. why are women doing it more for men?? It's a fact that women objectify themselves ALL the time. "how do I look?" "I'm gonna get all dressed up tonight" "does this make me look fat?"... make-up. media. vogue. playboy. Maybe if women stopped objectifying themselves, a lot of men might also stop treating women this way as well. As a female I know how hard it is feeling I'm not "what is expected" but then I think - FUCK what other people think! I don't care if people think I'm ugly or not. I'm not wanting to impress anyone anymore. I don't want the attention of strangers in the street. I don't want others to objectify me. And if I don't objectify myself, more people might stop doing it too. It's all about respect.

7. FYI, I am a strong believer of feminism which is why certain comments are making me laugh so hard!! My whole point is ABOUT more equal rights for women!! LOL!"

it always baffles me a little that people in the real world are really like this. like people would usually call troll at seeing this stuff here.

It makes me sad that someone can say Maybe if women stopped objectifying themselves, a lot of men might also stop treating women this way as well. and not realize that it's the media and the predominantly patriarchal society that objectifies women.

mte stop blaming women for... oppressing women? like idek how that makes sense

if men treat you like shit why the fuck would you blame other women instead of the men who treat you like shit? one of the stunning pieces of logic I will never get about this patriarchal misogynist bullshit.

either men are sober rational intellectuals who are fully in control of themselves unlike hysterical bitches OR dumb brutes who are helpless slaves to their dicks that women have to walk on eggshells around. PICK ONE, ASSHOLES.

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