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[(Anonymous)]

seeing comments like these brings me closer to wanting to leave this hobby for good. you say you're happy for them but are also about to dump them as an rp buddy for daring to want to play something different for a while. sorry your fun dispenser went to go dispense fun somewhere else i guess. (maybe that's why they got tired of you)

[(Anonymous)]

no one said anything about dumping you, deborah, go put in a fresh tampon

[(Anonymous)]

Because being sad someone doesn't want to play with you anymore is treating them as a fun dispenser. Get a grip.

[(Anonymous)]

seeing comments like these brings me closer to wanting to leave this hobby for good.

Then fuck off and never come back. The fact that you're easily getting pissy over that anon makes me believe that you're projecting your insecurities onto them.

[(Anonymous)]

idk. i don't think it's that hard to provide threads equal amounts of attention or something close to that. even communicating that they'd rather focus on something else may hurt less in comparison. anyway i doubt anon has any intention of dumping their rp partner over this. when i went through something similar, i waited patiently and paid attention to my other ongoing threads. it's just sad to be sidelined when tags arrived at a more reasonable clip before rather than 10+ days.

[(Anonymous)]

you probably should go, you're seething with resentment

[(Anonymous)]

You won't be missed.

[(Anonymous)]

You are entitled to do what you want and prioritize whatever you want, and your partners are entitled to feel however about that, including disappointed.

Also you don't know if ayrt is dropping this person as an rp partner or just looking to expand their roster. Jeez.

[(Anonymous)]

My rp buddies shouldn't be my fun dispensers, and I'm not THEIR fun dispenser either. If you want to chase your fun in a new muse/different threading partner/etc., it's not my place to stop you and try to keep you threading with me. But I'm also allowed to move on to other things. In fact it would be healthier to do that instead of waiting around like a wartime wife and potentially getting resentful.

+1

[(Anonymous)]

yeah, not really sure why there's this pervasive attitude that people can and should preserve their enthusiasm for a languishing thread or a rp partner who isn't showing up anymore. it's not personal, retaliatory or transactional to put limited energy in the direction where it's returned.

+1

[(Anonymous)]

the fact that ayrt is interpreting "moving on" as "dumping this person FOREVER they are DEAD TO ME" rather than "finding something else to do while they're busy with other threads" is insane

Re: +1

[(Anonymous)]

methinks they doth protest this much because "dumping forever" is what they do to their threads when the next fixation hits

Re: +1

[(Anonymous)]

It's very telling