seconding seeing the permissions for people because if you have an under 18 there will be people who refuse to smut with them. i would just look around people's smut lists to see if you vibe with what appears to be popular.

and DO NOT under any circumstances go into a smut game with the intention of a monogamous ship. emotionally is fine, but the point of the game is to be down to clown and it almost always ends in disaster.