alternatively, if you don't wanna do either of the above, maybe just make your own minimum list of the kinks you do know about off the top of your head? like, the ones you're actively looking to play, and the ones you never want to deal with. and then just add a note at the end like "if there's something not on the list that you'd like to try, feel free ask me about it first and we can hash it out!" or something like that

you don't *have* to have a page that comprehensively covers every possible kink out there. a kinklist on a journal's more like a general guide others can reference real quick wrt what you the player would be real interested in writing, and what you don't want to engage at all, off the bat. ime, greyer areas from there can be negotiated out on an as-needed basis

some ppl already have access to flist or an equivalent anyway and just pull from whatever they already have set up there, which is probably where the real big and thorough kinklists you see around come from