socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2023-11-25 07:13 pm

oh, dreamwidth park is lonely in the dark/all the horny memes have no tag-outs

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Re: RP JOYS

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
went for a ship i was nervous about and it's working out beautifully! so giddy and happy about this paying off

Re: RP JOYS

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
that's a great feeling, congrats anon and may there be many cute moments in your ship's future!

Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)
constantly having to reassure my rp partner everything is fine and their tags are great is getting so exhausting, it makes me want to tag them less. i've tried to talk about it but it keeps happening every few days if i slow down due to irl or other priorities.

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)
me, glancing around shiftily and opening my coat: here i got some goods for ya

https://twitter.com/m0sshroom/status/1733554094378500152
https://twitter.com/m0sshroom/status/1734289720602173794
https://archiveofourown.org/works/52176112

also i see you over there in the pairings thread...! i see u. if i can get an argenti journal up and running sometime and the voicetesting isn't a disaster.......points to eyes points to you
malpare: (Default)

Re: ayrt

[personal profile] malpare 2023-12-17 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)
perfect stows all of these away like the treasures they are! my friend linked me this too she knows my weakness

https://twitter.com/nylilcosmos/status/1736145112491491599

yes...........i am weak ok!! but its only fitting you take this journey with me when you started it. there i was living my life, just wanting to see more beautiful argentis, and then bam, a tsun

points eyes, points back! i will happily help you voice test if you like! but even if we dont thread i am just happy to see more argentis in the wild, so no pressure!

Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
you're strong and amazing

don't forget to take care of your own feelings too

Re: RP YEAR IN REVIEW

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
i tried to get a few meme threads going but they all fizzled out within 3 tags, and i got ghosted on PSL prospects... i'd like to think i wasn't the problem and it was just bad luck, but i've admitted to myself that i'll never be able to recreate the sheer joy i got from RP years ago. it sucks, but at least i can still enjoy reading old threads now and then.

op

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
thanks, anon <3 i am definitely too much of a people pleaser, i often forget to take a step back and focus on myself too.

Re: RP YEAR IN REVIEW

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
same, nonny. i came back so excited to tag out with my new character but the cr i was able to establish has all fizzled out or slowed to a crawl, and i've been ignored by everyone i've reached out to since october. i don't know how to break back into dwrp and i'm tired of being depressed about it, so it's looking like i'm on my way out too.

it's just such a shame. i really, really like this character and was hoping to explore so much more with her.

Re: RP YEAR IN REVIEW

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I apped to a new game where a castmate I was excited for tagged me back twice, dropped the thread, and hasn't tagged me again since. It's been a couple months and they're still tagging around with other people, otherwise I would have just chalked it up to this time of the year being slow in general.

Feels awkward, man.

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm loving reading the tdm, but god damn is it overwhelming having that many prompts at once

kind of hoping the number goes down during game events for both the mods and players sake, and that some of these ideas can come up again in game instead of being one use tdm only

+1

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
it doesn't help that some people have decided to write a novel for their top levels and tag into every single prompt. scrolling through to tag out is exhausting, it took me a couple of hours just to figure out who i wanted to respond to because my brain kept getting overwhelmed

Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
This sounds rough. Do you think they'd react poorly if you started gently redirecting their worries, like "Oh, I've just been slammed by rl this week, excited to begin tagging again though! Do you think it would be interesting if [insert idea you can run with in the next few tags here]?"

op

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
i do try to be upfront and let them know i'm slow because of irl stuff, and they always seem to understand, but then get all insecure anyway if i'm not tagging them soon or first etc. i think it doesn't help they admitted i'm one of the only people they're currently rping with, so they're always waiting for stuff from me. i've encouraged them to try memes and other things but i can only do so much :(

Re: op

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
Ahh that's a bummer. I hope it works out but I'd get tired of the constant reassurance dance too. If I'm still tagging somebody I'm enthusiastic about the thread!

Re: RP JOYS

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
WELCOME NEWBIE!!!! <3

Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
Trying a TDM for a game that actually really has me hooked that I really want to throw my character into, but I keep getting anxiety over whether or not my top-level is good enough or if my writing or character is bad or not good enough for people to want to tag with.

+1!

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
Especially the OPLAs, I hope none of their players mind their threads being stalked but they all look like they’re having so much fun

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
welcome! i hope it was to me

Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
don't let your anxiety hold you back from going for what you want and having fun, you've got this!

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
mods said that they would be smaller going forward!

imo i appreciate that it isn't seven pages of the same three prompts (though seven pages.... when was the last time a game had that, wow)

Re: RP JOYS

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
same here anon!! you gave me the strength i needed! we can be newbies together

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
i actually liked being able to pick and choose which prompts i wanted to use, there was so much variety (and the two separate arrival scenarios was really cool). better than having nothing at all to react to imo.

Re: RECOMMEND A CANON/CHARACTER

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
Shetland, 8 seasons
Mare of Easttown, 1 season
The Sinner, 4 seasons

Disclaimers that I haven't seen S4 of The Sinner or the last couple of Shetland seasons so I can't speak to whether they fall off, hopefully they're still good!

cw for suicide references and depictions. Also cw for sexual assault references with all of them, although iirc there's no graphic depiction or on-screen sexual violence. Mostly they deal with trauma. It's quite peripheral in Mare and doesn't come up until later Shetland seasons, but it's pretty centred in S1 of The Sinner.

Also they're all in the True Detective vein of 'solved crime, everything still shit' so maybe break them up with a happier series in between :) But they're all worth watching.

I hope you have a lovely time with your mum nonny. 💕

Yu Yu Hakusho LA

(Anonymous) 2023-12-18 04:48 am (UTC)(link)
Hoping that this brings in some new blood like OPLA did. Anybody enjoying it?