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oh, dreamwidth park is lonely in the dark/all the horny memes have no tag-outs

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i agree with this

just take a break from creating (actively rping, canon review, etc) and just enjoy media for fun. if you find yourself taking notes, speculating, etc, let yourself. the point is having fun naturally instead of forcing it.

or try a different hobby, as a break from just rping in general. rping is creative writing, so why not do something unrelated like cooking? or anything you can do and interested in.

personally i'm school C (when playing canon characters): i don't initiate OOC negotiation at all (although i make it clear thread partners can ask for whatever they want), i just let it play out ICly how it's gonna play out. i must run into the same types of rpers because i have yet to have any trouble with that approach

School A. I don't like writing out negotiations (or even structured BDSM scenes with colors etc) in RP threads because i feel like the point of having that in RL kink is to make sure fantasy doesn't spill too hard into reality and cause damage. Since in RP we are already writing the fantasy in its entirety, I don't see the point of incorporating the "fine print" in there too. That's what OOC discussion is for.

Having an IC safe word for the heavier stuff seems to make most people comfortable and is a good compromise.

- anime girl
- bit on the younger side
- short blonde hair
- citrinne from fire emblem is a good example of what i'm looking for in looks and general vibe

- anime girl
- bit on the younger side
- short blonde hair
- citrinne from fire emblem is a good example of what i'm looking for in looks and general vibe

(i missed. sorry. it's in the right section now)

School A, especially if there has been OOC conversation and negotiation about the scene. I generally find them boring and the negotiation often makes little sense for the characters and serves no purpose.

that said, I have actually written out a couple of bdsm negotiation threads that weren't terribly boring but one of them hadn't been discussed before at all and it took both of us by surprise, and the other was a much more ritualistic bdsm thread that kind of needed the communication.

I guess it kind of depends on the character and the circumstances? I usually fall into A because I play a lot of people who would probably not negotiate their kinks in the strict sense, because they are not brushed up on safe sane consensual. I, as the player, do talk things over with my partners, although a lot of times it's not very complicated... ("Can X slap some cuffs on Y?" "Hell yeah." etc.) Sometimes this kind of exchange also just happens IC-ly, and unless my partner says otherwise, I take it as OOC agreement too—assuming that the kink isn't thought to be super triggering or controversial.

However if I played a saavy 21st century kinkster, I might be more inclined to go with B, because they would be more likely to actually negotiate and discuss safewords and precautions... If the negotiation doesn't get played out, I think I'd at least mention in narration that the negotiation happened.

I guess I think of IC kink negotiation as... well, an IC thing, it depends on characterization. My emotionally-stunted fuckboy wouldn't start a kink negotiation and, assuming I'd already discussed the scene OOC with my partner, I'd find it kinda weird if they got mad at me because fuckboy didn't ask their safeword before edging them. If it's a harder kink though, like if it's a CNC scene between the characters, I can see preemptively asking if they want the negotiation to be included.

Buuut I don't think IC kink negotiation should be an unspoken expectation. More an if you want it, you should make sure your partner knows.

A in the sense I like to double check for squicks and triggers ahead of time

C in the sense that if my thread partner indicates they want non-discussed kink xyz in the process of writing the thread (through meta or dialogue), if I like them enough I won't hesitate to throw it in

You want exhibitionist monster cock, bestie, you're absolutely getting monster cock and let me Google monster dildos and have you pick your favorites

sa, and I don't mean via ic kink negotiation, I mean just some bracket reference or w/e

This year has been A Lot (and it seems like it's been that way for everyone, sadly), so I'd appreciate points sent to this journal for any anons willing to do so <333

Many thanks in advance and I hope we can all have a much better year in 2024.

what is it about the sims don't you like? is it the cartoony style? there are work arounds for that if you're wanting a more realistic look. between the basegame being free and the huge variety of easy to find (and also free) custom content out there, it's the best tool i've found.

Looking to play older brother/younger sister in a generic medieval-ish fantasy world - I'd play the sister.

Basics: Older brother's been away for a few years for some reason (becoming a knight, fostered to another family, hostage for his family's good behavior, whatever) and comes home to discover that his little sister went from cute kid to attractive young woman while he was away. They've always been close, sister's always kind of hero-worshipped him, and she's definitely into the man he's become while they were apart.

Totally down for reluctance/worrying about consequences/taking it real slow, but I'd like it to be consensual and sooner or later enthusiastic consent. Little sister's adventurous and would be eager to try out any kinks big brother's heard (or knows for sure) are enjoyable, or they could just experiment - I'm open to most things that aren't gore, bathroom stuff, etc. Size differences, age differences, body worship, wrestling/sparring, risk of getting caught, and risk of pregnancy are some I'd be really into for this scenario though.

Ages - somewhere between 15 and 21 for the sister; your choice for the brother, from just a couple years older to 15+ years if you're into bigger age differences. My character's an OC with (adult) LA icons, but I'm happy to go iconless if you prefer that. Canon and OCs both very welcome! Feel free to comment or PM, whatever works for you.

i swear to fucking christ if the people in my house cannot be adults and put their dirty dishes in the dishwasher when it is waiting to be run and not full, or run the dishwasher at all actually, or not leave dirty dishes on the stove and in the sink for 2+ days, i'm going to fucking scream. and i am so, so tired of "handling it" when i barely cook or make any dirty dishes myself, deliberately, so that other people don't pick a fight with each other.

i'm on fucking strike. grow up. i'm not doing this any more. fuck all of you.

I saw this thread a while back and the answers were hilarious, so I wanted to bring it back.

Definitely responsible!! I always work with a trainer. It's mostly a mental barrier to push past now.

And absolutely, I come here all the time even though I don't rp as much because I just really love the community. I love doing the AMAs when they come up because I know it's a weird and wonderful hobby.

I also post lifting on my instagram but I'm not sure if it's legal to post it on rpa.

oh i just mean that i just want to do the housebuilding thing on its own rather than start up a game and throw together a family to move into the house, etc etc. i like the game itself a lot! i was just hoping there was something i could mess around with in my browser outside of the full game

sorry i'm being a nitpicky nelly lol

Some bittersweet reunion:

The shit drifted away and he wished it'd taken him with it.

god fucking dammit ishmael this is all your fault, why did you do this??

Same here - if I play a character likely to be more risky I throw an OOC line asking about any hard nos before the scene starts, otherwise it's playing it by ear and ICness

The amount of times I've typo-ed "shit" while meaning to write "shift" is staggering and thank you to my rp friends for your infinite patience.

Recent example:
She had four hours left before her shit ended.

TFLN is a saving grace for me in finding not just great CRs, but great ship opportunities too!

You can free build in Sims 4, it’s literally all I do. I’ve never moved a family into a house because I don’t care about the sim part of sims.

grandma hornyposting on rpanons... ONCE AGAIN, the fault lies with YOU, ISHMAEL!!!!

simone aragon from star driver maybe? she's got the aesthetic and somewhat similar vibe, i think

ayrt

wanting something browser based is super fair! I don't have any recs for you in that case. Would be nice if there were house builder tools the same way there are doll maker tools :(

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oh, dreamwidth park is lonely in the dark/all the horny memes have no tag-outs

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m/f sibling incest, medieval-ish nobility, age/size differences, enthusiastic consent!

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