socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2023-11-25 07:13 pm

oh, dreamwidth park is lonely in the dark/all the horny memes have no tag-outs

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Re: Canon sapphics reccomendations

(Anonymous) 2023-11-27 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
just finished rereading bloom into you, which i'd really recommend. all three of the main girls are gay. (and they made half of it into an anime if that's your preference.)

wouldn't say there's a lot of blatant meanness, but the author purposefully wrote the male characters so it's obvious that none of them are competing love interests. which i think is funny and good
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[personal profile] unluckysix 2023-11-27 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
hello, i love being problematic and writing heavy shit and i rotate these fucked up sisters in my brain regularly. i used to play shit tons of league but i can assure you the show's writing/canon is superior in every way; the only characterization i pull from outside of the show itself is from the Council Archives notes. hit me up in pms if you wanna discuss!

Re: sa

(Anonymous) 2023-11-27 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Who was the wanker in question???

Re: Canon sapphics reccomendations

(Anonymous) 2023-11-27 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
basically all the women in murcielago are attracted to women in one degree or another, and since the main character is an assassin she gets to be mean about men.

all the girls in savior are lesbians in a toxic love triangle (the sad vampire is actually the least fucked up tbh), but there’s almost no male involvement in the series besides a couple plot devices.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-27 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
As a newbie, when it's fun it can be so much fun but it is really, really cliquey and you have to fight for cr in a way that can sometimes work but is exhausting to maintain, and it can be emotionally not fun to feel like you're just observing the in-group from the fringes. I'm running out of stamina for it personally, but you'll have better luck if you still know people here or if you pick a popular character/canon, and obviously if you already know the social rules of the hobby.

(I don't say this to be all woe-is-me—I think it's understandable that people are more interested in cr from people who they know and who aren't newbies—but it is definitely more difficult than I anticipated it being.)

Re: SMALL SAGA

(Anonymous) 2023-11-27 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
hoping to pick up this game soon after really enjoying the demo a few months ago! has much changed from the demo to the main game, or does demo data carry over?

(Anonymous) 2023-11-27 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
out of curiosity, anon, are you speaking from your experiences rping in games or on memes?

Re: sa

(Anonymous) 2023-11-27 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
gonsai/gsai/g

Re: Canon sapphics reccomendations

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Angelica, Aeolia, Mariabell, Ilya, and Shirley from the Trails series.

Cutey Honey and Natsuko from the various Cutey Honey entries, plus a lot of side characters. Re: Cutie Honey is probably the biggest entry for that.

Asamiya Saki from Sukeban Deka, but very downplayed.

As mentioned above, Sailor Moon has a few. Usagi and Minako are basically confirmed bi and Rei isn't stated to be a lesbian, but she's pretty dismissive of men.

Akko and Diana of Little Witch Academia.

I can't speak for the quality, but I know Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid is full of them.

The MCs of the Iczer are in love.

Alma, Sei, and Stella from VA-11 Hall-A are all into women.

...Really, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_lesbian_characters_in_animation might be a site for you to check out.

Also https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_video_games_with_LGBT_characters

Re: sa

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
LMAOOOO reading that name is giving me Vietnam flashbacks to the wankgate TRENCHES

Re: sa

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
hahahaha sorry everyone was vaguing at you anon, but mentioning them by name is actually illegal here on rpa. just fyi before we get frozen

Re: GENERAL DWRP QUESTIONS

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
I end up befriending a new buddy after double-checking with them if they want my character via PM. Even if you didn't get that second thread (lbr life happens and we're getting older), getting a nice comment is always a nice feeling!

Re: sa

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
fortunate son playing as i shimmy my ass up the muddy embankment into flatview

ff - teacher/student, underage, forbidden romance, idk japanese setting is that even a kink?

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
looking to play a middle-school student who falls in love with her female teacher, confesses, and the teacher reciprocates and so they start a secret relationship!

i'll be using drawn icons, and the PB i'd guess looks like 11-12 but i'm flexible in terms of age tbh

love mutual masturbation, 69ing, bathing together, a focus on kissing, maybe some kind of breast envy/breast worship, scissoring/tribbing is a fun kink i never get to play out?

i'd like to play in a japanese setting just bc i dunno, i wanna do cute seifuku school uniforms and maybe they can sneak the girl into a love hotel or something

drop a sock where I can reach you!

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
how/where do you do that?

Re: sa

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
da but yeah it's a banned name because they're still around and chronically cannot stop trying to anon shitstir, so just not giving them the name publicity they seem to love is the mods' way of trying to cut off the oxygen on that iirc

da

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 01:48 am (UTC)(link)

change the default shipping address' name field

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
hit the same three dots in the upper right corner

select "manage list"

scroll down to "shipping address"

there's a grey box (containing the shipping address) with a "v"-arrow indicating a drop down. select it and then select "create new" to add your address with a different name

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
* the upper right corner of your wishlist

Re: Canon sapphics reccomendations

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
yeah but she’s a terribly annoying character

if you want fun “queer“ ladies in the danganronpa series, you’d have a better time with ultra despair girls. touko and komaru grow really close and loving and you see them have their struggles together throughout the game.

besides, i don’t think anyone in the dangan series is canonically queer (except for juzo, and he’s also hard to like, but for different reasons).

Re: Canon sapphics reccomendations

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
seconding the witch from mercury

if you want mean lesbian x soft cute girl, it’s the best

Re: Canon sapphics reccomendations

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
could we have one rec thread where we don't compulsively shit on other ppl's recs

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
Two separate game experiences, but I did trial run quite a bit with psls, which were broadly less exciting (part of the fun for me is building out a character's social life) but at the same time broadly less stressful/effortful. Before this I had spent a long time in forum RP. I'm not sure if after this I'll go back to that or try psling again, the writing quality here is generally more my speed hence my hesitation.

da

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
yikes i can't be the only one here who thinks that this response is unnecessarily cold, and i think you're missing the point. op knows the problem, and they know they have to communicate. they're just expressing their anxiety, which tbh anonymously is a harmless and easy way to do. it doesn't hurt anyone or clutter a timeline. just scroll by if you're going to do this "tough love" rude act. not sure why you're getting so triggered over someone being woeful under a thread that's all about woes. it's a way of venting.

that being said, op, the anon does have a point that it's important to reach to others and communicate, and you can't expect others to know what you're thinking. that old rp partner is off in their own little world having a blast with their new muse and doing new threads, and you know how we all get tunnel vision when we click with a new character, ship, or game. it just happens, and it probably has nothing to do with you. so you have a few options.

1. continue doing nothing. your anxiety will remain. nothing will change. as mentioned above, you're free to have woes and vent, but it's gotta become exhausting at some point, right?
2. reach out with a proposition for a thread. maybe they will, maybe they won't accept, and you'll have to accept it. easier said than done, but I bet if they refuse, it's probably because of the character you're playing rather than anything else, and they're looking for something more specific. but if they accept, be prepared to do a bit more of the heavy-lifting for starting threads and stuff.
3. instead of threading, just write a fic about your characters. I've seen some people do this when they want some sort of closure for dead cr or psls, and they say it's helpful.
4. be the change you want to see. pick up their character and play them instead. find someone else who plays the muse you used to play, a character-type close enough to them. you'd be surprised how easy it is, because sometimes it's not the characters or the player, but just the type of dynamic the two characters bring that we crave to write.
3. if you can't handle your anxiety, then unfriend them, or at least unfollow them, and find other things to do. the only control you have is over what you do and how you play.

Re: sa

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
where did you serve soldier? I did my first tour of duty in Sirens Pull back at the beginning of the war, but I got redeployed to Amat Omnes and let me tell you. They don't tell you about the real horrors of war.

*drags on a cigarette with shaking hands*

Tell me soldier, you ever see a hang gliding accident on a public post channel???