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tell me you're neurotypical without telling me you're neurotypical

it's like if someone who was unable to use their legs kept posting about how hard it is to get to the grocery store without having the use of their legs. and all the replies were "oh, it is SO hard to get to the grocery store without the use of your legs, you are so right. i also cant use my legs and i struggle with this all the time."

then, an Abrasive Anon says "get a wheelchair. connect with community resources. dont just lie there posting about how you need groceries without doing anything."

its like they dont even understand how disabilities work.

the third paragraph is just "have you considered not having anxiety"

gee thanks bootstraps anon, how could we have missed that one

it's like they refuse to understand that people can't just make an effort to use community resources to improve their situation

fuck off

Tell me you should be dumping all your anxiety on a therapists and not your rp partners but do it anyway without telling me that you should be dumping all your anxiety on a therapists and not your rp partners but do it anyway

"have you considered not existing as a person with anxiety, it bothers me to see you"

i cannot imagine how much anxiety you had to overcome to post this. it must have been mountainous.

who is the jerk in the rp woes thread lately? holy shit just go do your tags, maybe try a character where you can get that energy out in a way that brings people joy

just dont think "im afraid of tagging because what if im not perfect" is a sentiment that needs as much oxygen as it gets week in week out around here. it just does not need that much sympathy and care. the fact that it keeps happening several times a post in every single post might suggest that all the sympathy and care is not actually helping with the problem, too.

i don't disagree with you but people aren't going to be receptive to advice delivered in the form of "have you tried sucking less as a person," so you're really shooting yourself in the foot here

learn to scroll past comments you don't like. problem solved. i don't think "i'm upset by having to see comments i disagree with on a post i'm voluntarily visiting and reading" deserves much sympathy either.

why didnt you do this?

nah i think i will continue informing you when you're being an asshole

i'd rather be anxious than a rude asshole, hth

the odds are excellent that you use the first as an excuse for the second. if this was not the case, you wouldnt be centering your anxieties in a purely nickname-based hobby space. you could create a new identity ever time you encounter something that scares you too much to continue. but you dont want that. instead you want some kind of nebulous "inclusion" that appears to boil down to "dont hold my flakiness against me, it comes from a place of fear."

id even be willing to work with that, but then on top of it, the anxious soul turns up on rpanons asking for free advice and sympathy, and they get mad whenever anything happens that isnt really, really asspatty.

"dont hold my flakiness against me, it comes from a place of fear which i refuse to ever do anything about"

that, i wont work with.

> id even be willing to work with that

willing to bet no one wants to work with you after what an asshole you've been in this thread so it's a moot point

i see we have moved from rping a support group to writing fanfiction about each other. heres mine about you: you personally think you could be doing more or better tags, but the process of improving seems daunting to you, and you write it off as being too much work for something that you dont think is that important. unwilling to support yourself even on small matters, you allow large ones to overwhelm you.

in forty years you look back on your life and realize you spent it doing neither what you ought to have done, because you kept undermining your own efforts to improve yourself even in small ways, nor what you would have liked to do, because you allowed your shame and guilt over not being as good as you wanted to be to dominate your ability to enjoy things.

you're so close to understanding

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