as a regular lurker and more recent commenter idk. it is pretty jarring to see random transphobia and people being rude about questions or concerns or worries in any hobbyist community. so many of you guys respond in this strange and condescending way every time someone asks this question. it isn't a judgment call on you specifically so maybe chill? there's no standard unanon hub for newbies to get into the dwrp world anymore with the death of fandom comms, and so for a lot of them, rpanons is their first real exposure to our ooc community. i get that we get questions and remarks along these lines fairly often and it becomes a little exhausting. but i feel like if it's mentioned this much it might be time to consider that it's offputting for new people to see? it doesn't hurt to be patient.