chat with the players and check what their characters got up to in general, i agree with the other anon about going to the same places. do they spend time at a general area? happen to work at the same cafe? something simple so you can suggest they know each other casually ("i like chocolate cake" "cool"), so you can save more important moments for threading out ("you alright man? i got you chocolate cake" "no, but thanks").
Re: GENERAL DWRP QUESTIONS