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Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

echoing everybody else

i dont know the details but if you have good reason to think this is what's up and theyve not been receptive to talking it out, theyre not likely to grow up anytime soon

Re: RP WOES

[(Anonymous)]

I’m pretty sure. They made comments on some of my threads on BS, in game (in posts they hadn’t even tagged into), and on ooc plotting where I was planning with people. Then they said they were upset and annoyed, but shut down when I asked why.

da

[(Anonymous)]

this is stalker-levels of toxic. cut them out of your life asap.

da

[(Anonymous)]

People should stop saying a behaviour is stalkerish just because someone sees someone else doing things in public places.

I don't know how everyone is supposed to look through Bakerstreet to find characters to tag out to, or to follow what's going on in their games if at the same time they must keep eyes closed.

Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

are you defending this person? if not then you should air out your personal complaints in a different thread

Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

seeking out a friend's threads on memes just to complain about them is stalker behaviour yes. it's not as if they just happen to see them, she's clearly looking for these threads so she has a reason to bitch about being ignored.

Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

i mean

all we know is that they saw them

they could have just happened to see them without seeking them out, i dont know where youre getting that they couldnt have

i think its toxic and op is probably better off cutting ties, but stalker seems like a stretch from what little we do know

Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

sure ok a person with a history of toxic behavior just happened to stumble on her friends threads when she happened to want a reason to get upset at her friend for not paying attention to her

I have a bridge to sell you too anon

nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

yes this can literally happen if you're just browsing bakerstreet? game posts and ooc plotting posts in games that they share are publicly visible?

like sure i'll believe that op's friend is also a neurotic stalker but what we've been told isn't proof of that lmao

Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

yes, it can happen, but that's not the point. the point is that they commented on seeing it. even that isn't necessarily damning on its own, but in combination with the weird passive aggression and bad vibes OP is getting, it's part of a pattern. you can pretend not to recognize it if you want to, but "all we know is that she saw them" is not actually true.

Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

the point is that it isn't them being a stalker dumbo

Re: nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

not defending op's shitty insecure friend but dumb bitches on here acting like seeing publicly posted threads on bakerstreet is "stalking" are the rp equivalent of crackheads screaming about gangstalking because someone drove down the same street they were walking on

give it a rest, you look insane

+1

[(Anonymous)]

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt i want to pop in and agree that it’s not stalking but someone said that it’s stalkerish and i agree with them because it’s not just meme threads. op mentioned in game log and plotting threads that they never tagged in but are mentioning, and that’s what’s really making me go “hm.”

[(Anonymous)]

do you realize that if they are in the same game then that is actually less weird than commenting on meme threads

[(Anonymous)]

idk when i’m in games with friends i don’t usually read their logs that my characters aren’t in because i have my own tags to get to. if they share a thread with me to go omg this is so cute/funny/sad i’ll read it but i don’t monitor my friends tags and afaik they don’t either.

[(Anonymous)]

+1 there's a reason why some of us think it's weird when u know everything about someone else's tagging

[(Anonymous)]

its a shared public space

if you dont want people reading your threads in a place which is public that you share, consider writing in a diary instead

[(Anonymous)]

+1, i'll read stuff if it's relevant to me/my character but otherwise i don't read their threads unless they link them to me because i have my hands full with my own tags.

[(Anonymous)]

i read almost everyone's logs and network posts. not because i'm a stalker, but because i enjoy reading about the games i'm in.

[(Anonymous)]

this. noticing those things isn't stalking, but keeping track of them is definitely stalkerish. i know my castmate has been tagging around the latest mingle log in our game, for example, but couldn't tell you exactly who they've been tagging because i'm not paying attention to that.

[(Anonymous)]

i read my friend's threads when i see them threading on bakerstreet while im scrolling all the time

is this rubbing elbows with actual stalkers

[(Anonymous)]

depends on why you're reading them imo

because you enjoy the character/the way your friend writes? not stalking

because you're bootyblistered that your friend is tagging someone else who isn't you? stalking

1+

[(Anonymous)]

having had a neighbor track my movements and also record which way my dog faced every time she shit in the back yard i can assure you all that it is ok to stop being babies because people have the audacity to look at public threads

Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

doesnt it ever get tiring, constantly bending yourself in half to assume the absolute worst of everybody around you