oh to be a beautiful widow taking a rest against my fainting couch

[socksuke_uchiha]

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[(Anonymous)]

are you actually being lied to or have you chosen to interpret an answer you don't like as a personal attack?

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[(Anonymous)]

being lied to isnt "a personal attack" and no one's saying it is you intellectually stunted idiot

"i'm too tired for rp" and then proceeding to rp with other people or app to another game is lying

it's not a relationship-ending lie, but it's a lie

and doing this publicly will change how your friends feel about and react to you

youre not entitled to treating people around you like shit and itll come back to you. you dont have much surface area coverage with your little dried out pebble brain but i know you can eventually wrap it around this concept if you really try

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

friendly reminder to unclench your jaw before you break a tooth.

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[(Anonymous)]

me get last word me win argument ooga booga

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[(Anonymous)]

idk what else to say anon. i'd rather choose to be kinder to the people around me than assuming the worst and most selfish intentions of everyone i interact with. i've been on the other side of this argument and all it did was make me more miserable and lonely than i might've been otherwise.

seriously tho you gotta relax your jaw if nothing else. everybody that reads this, even me. roll your shoulders a little and stretch and get some water. you'll feel better.

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[(Anonymous)]

lying to your friends is not kind regardless of your intentions hth

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[(Anonymous)]

lying to your friends and making nasty accusations if it bothers them is not kind or assuming the best intentions of anyone fyi

you sound like you have no empathy for anyone other than yourself. You keep talking about "your feelings" but you don't seem to give a shit about anyone else's. you're not asking for kindness, you're asking for the freedom to be an asshole without experiencing consequences for it

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

it feels a bit weird to act all magnanimous about this when really people are just asking for you to not be rude and deceptive towards them.

like, according to this logic, the true kindness is just doing whatever you want and expecting that nobody will ever be upset, and if they are upset, that's a them problem, and they are probably crazy for feeling that way.

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

so basically from what i'm gathering is that the kind thing to do is do what you want.

you don't owe anybody an explanation.

you don't owe anybody a half decent excuse.

if they're not okay with what you tell them, that's a THEM problem and THEY should have more compassion for you.

if they're upset that they don't get to hang out with their fwend then maybe the pissbaby should pull up their pants and understand that you're practicing self care instead of not being a fucking baby about it. oh, pwecious baby, maybe mommy doesn't have time for you, maybe mommy doesn't want to tag you.

if they confront you about it they're being unreasonable for not headcanoning a reason for why you did what you did and shutting the fuck up.

if they discover that you blew them off then they should learn to unclench and stop stalking, even if 'stalking' is just noticing the plurks you put up on your timeline.




and while rp isn't the most important thing, $20 says some of these people who're in this general post screeching about how the most important thing is just you you you, also bitches about dropped threads and how nobody tags back or communicates without making the connection between the two attitudes. and i don't think you owe people tags/pms/etc, but I'm also not going, "well, i'm going to practice self care and not communicate i don't like this thread so i'm dropping it without saying anything FDJSKFJSL omg why isn't anybody tagging me back???? so many flakes in this hobby????"

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

i'm thinking less of alleged friends who are deliberately dishonest with me and there's nothing you can do to stop me

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

just a heads up because it appears you genuinely have no idea how offputting you are: bathing your turds in this sugary attitude does not make them tootsie rolls. people still know you are telling them to eat shit when you pull this nonsense.

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[(Anonymous)]

lmao they were so belligerent upthread until they realized no one was putting up with their rancid attitude. Backpedaling to this "omg im a sweet cinnamon roll who just thinks we should be nice to each other" routine is just pathetic

nobody has to assume the worst and most selfish intentions of them, they're admitting them right out in the open

(frozen comment) ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

my sincere hope is its a troll. i know people like that irl and they are the most unpleasable and untrustworthy little shits. really hate to think one of them made their way here. worse yet to think its a shitty little cringebeast irl who thinks they are acting like the popular hot girls at whatever >40 age they are.

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[(Anonymous)]

if my friend tells me she's not feeling well and can't hang out, and then goes and hangs out with someone else, she is not being kind to me. i'm not in a rage but my feelings are kinda stung. i'll probably shrug it off, because i *am* the sort of person to give people the benefit of the doubt, but why is the expectation to be kind only on me? why am i not considered a real person?

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

+1. it's not rocket science, if you do that to someone you owe them at least an apology for it and an acknowledgement that it wasn't a great thing to do.

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

yep. it's not a big deal unless it's happening constantly, but it takes basically no effort to be honest.

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[(Anonymous)]

I call my friends, say let’s go into town
But they’re all too busy to go into town
So I go by myself, I go into town
Then I see all my friends, they’re all in town


I GOT HURT FEELINS
I GOT HURT FEELINS

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

they didn't even mention my casserole :/

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[(Anonymous)]

they’re lined up to watch that movie, maid in manhattan >:(

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

friendly reminder that disagreeing with you doesn't mean frothing in bestial rage

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

"i didn't lie to you when i lied to you, you're just perceiving it the wrong way" sure is, uh, a telling response

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

all of these anons coming out to say "actually me blowing off my friends with shitty lies and half-assed excuses is self-care and good and youre just a jealous controlling insecure weirdo if you dont like that, actually" sure are saying a lot about themselves with very few words lmao

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

+1

i had an rp friend lie to me and then freak the fuck out and act like the victim when i got upset. at the time i was baffled but this whole exchange is making me realize that some people in this hobby just genuinely think this is a thing they should be allowed to do without consequences.

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not sure some anons realize that the people who RP on this website aren't part of their computer

(frozen comment) Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

+1

tbh a lot of kneejerk "omggg stop being a jealous and insecure weirdo" reactions on here come down to "i should be able to do whatever i want without another human being reacting to it in any way"