socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2022-04-04 08:55 pm

oh to be a beautiful widow taking a rest against my fainting couch

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(frozen comment) Re: da

(Anonymous) 2022-04-13 09:39 pm (UTC)(link)
no

if you continually make plans with your friends and then have to flake on them because you have no respect for their time or ability to budget your own time and energy, youre a shit friend

youre also a shit friend if you have so little respect for your friends that you think them getting annoyed about this in 100 percent of cases means your friends are not actually your friends

(frozen comment) sa

(Anonymous) 2022-04-13 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
and also: lying to your friends about why you cant make good on your plans and then going to carry them out with someone else and in other ways makes you a shit friend, just to make sure we've covered all grounds, since thats mostly what this is about

(frozen comment) +1

(Anonymous) 2022-04-13 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
also, lbr, if you take someone's time and their energy for granted and have a habit of repeatedly flaking on them last minute, disregarding what they put into it, then they're probably not your friend! or at least they're not someone who you value all that much.

you should look out for yourself, but there's ways of doing that which don't shit on other people, and sometimes you might need to put on your adult pants and go out and try to cancel things with some dignity.

most of this doesn't have to do with what op was talking about, but boy, apparently some of y'all really do think you're the protagonist of reality and everyone else doesn't have their own time or stress or schedules and can just wait on you.

(frozen comment) Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-04-13 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
the amount of times I've had people tell me they're too busy for our game plans because of work and irl only to immediately app another game is directly proportional to the amount of people I've stopped bothering to prioritize or believe when it comes to rp plans.

just be honest and don't flake on plans with people with lies.

(frozen comment) Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-04-13 10:35 pm (UTC)(link)
i'd also be so pissed if someone who i thought was a friend used language like 'angwy because your fwend isn't pwaying wif you' to refer to me maybe wanting to do a thing with them, just gotta say that. like lmao, who the hell do they think they are?

(frozen comment) Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-04-13 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
maybe they specifically don't want to play with you, anon

(frozen comment) Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-04-13 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
maybe the point is people should say that and get it over with instead of lying about it, janet

(frozen comment) +100

(Anonymous) 2022-04-13 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
istg, the number of people on this comm and wg who think that all bad behavior is justified as long as they're satisfied by the results and not personally experiencing any discomfort

they probably leave their shopping carts in the middle of the parking lot

(frozen comment) Re: +100

(Anonymous) 2022-04-14 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
Mama Jessica! I didn't know you rped!