rpanons | oh to be a beautiful widow taking a rest against my fainting couch

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nah, I stand by what I wrote: if someone removes you on plurk, respect that as a decision not to communicate.

if anything just leave the ball in their court if they ever want to reach out again, but as for the one being cut, you shouldn’t contact them out of respect for them cutting contact. they don’t owe you an explanation for why they cut you, and you should respect the boundary.

you really don't have any idea how often people trim their lists after dropping a game, do you

if you were keeping up with the thread, i’m talking about when in the same game with current CR with the player

so you agree

tagging someone you've pruned from your plurk isnt necessarily a big deal or social transgression if that boundary has not been set because the ball is now in your court

the boundary is set because

1. You have significant CR with this player
2. You’re still in the game with this player

and they still unfriend you

I’d take that as a sign that they don’t want interaction, so I can understand how it’d be weird if they’d tag into one of my logs

its their boundary tho

they define where it is and what it stands against

if it triggers you into setting up your own boundary fine, but its still their own boundary and it isnt that weird

no wonder we have so many problems with anons legitimately think that silently blocking someone and then disappearing into the ether with naught but the assumption that you have a mutual understanding of DNI is "setting a boundary"

Rpers have a communication problem as a whole

What would you do in the situation where you had CR and are in the same game as someone, but then they unfriend you? Sooo many here would rightly assume they don’t want interaction. And it’s not up to you to contact them to ask why. Let them have their boundary and don’t interact further.

you are one of those people who has a communication problem

unclench and maybe don't get offended about every little violation of your unspoken plurk social rules

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