socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2021-08-26 05:35 pm

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Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2021-09-11 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
I wonder if the 3rd party in this case is a canonmate... I've definitely seen people get wanked on for being "OOC" because they don't immediately drop their in-game ships in favor of their canon love interest (or even just a popular fandom ship). And since it's rare to actually get to play out a canon ship or popular fanon ship in a panfandom game, there's a lot of pressure for the player to jump on that opportunity even if they've been enjoying other CR.

Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2021-09-11 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
does it matter? if all parties are clear about what everyone wants to happen, then it wouldn't matter if the 3rd party is a canonmate or not. if 2 people have already written a ship and a 3rd person wants to insert themselves in it, then all 3 people have to talk about it together, including what that should look like as well as plans for advancing that cr that everyone is comfortable with.

i know this community doesn't like planning or talking to each other, but this is really a situation that warrants all parties on board. if one person doesn't like it, the other two should figure out a way to respect that person's wishes. they can carry out their own ship in a psl, for example. it kills me whenever i see rpers just value temporary gratification that ships bring in favour of destroying pre-established friendships with actual people. and this happens so often that it's barely wankworthy at all, but imo it should be.