think of something you like. look at your friend group/game mates to make sure you're not coming up with the third 'kit/kat/jen'. if you like fairy tales, maybe myth or grimm or fable or something. it doesn't have to be a 'name' so much as just something that's "you", if you get my drift. like the egyptian pantheon? bast or anubis or horus. like food? cookie or tea or churro. we have people (and this isn't to degrade or be negative, just to point out) named chips, noodle, toast, batty, cloud, tree. pick something that you like. ocean, river, puffy, marshmallow, pink, purple, aqua, bead, fringe, ember, voldy. pick a character you really like that you don't play (i'd suggest one you do like and play, but then someone can try to claim 'soulbonder', so the opposite is best.)

make a list, then go through what you like best. pick your favorite time period, geographic location, whatever. i'd think narrowing it down to just one is the harder part.