socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2021-02-28 05:35 pm

flaking for me but not for thee

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Re: RP WOES

(Anonymous) 2021-03-17 08:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Getting back to writing was the biggest step I had to take! I was pretty much stuck in the ‘Love thinking but hate doing’ phase of roleplay then with how unsatisfied I was back then. It ended up with me stuck in this cycle of planning and failing to fall through and telling myself the NEXT plans will get done.

I learned to let go writing huge sprawling novel-length tags and let loose. Do short tags to keep something flowing and if a moment special then write a big tag. It helped me keep up momentum and stay engaged.

My biggest help was getting more hobbies or joining more fandoms. Roleplay was my Big Thing back then and ONLY my Big Thing. When I was listless and bored I panicked because I sunk so much time in it. Finding other things to be engaged with - zine applications, fandom gifting, discords, streams - helped ease the dependence. It let me see roleplay as a hobby again and not my only source of online entertainment.