socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2020-05-12 07:47 pm

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(Anonymous) 2020-06-09 03:57 pm (UTC)(link)
someone CAN still be conflicted and disappointed when a good thing goes south and they find out someone they had creative chemistry with is a bigot, even if things seem clear cut. OP clearly thought cutting ties was an option, but it sounds to me like they wanted to make sure it was a logical solution (or might be drumming up the 'backbone' you reference to go through with it.) that's the whole point behind asking for advice.

advice which they got and you agree with, so there is really no reason to come at this with that much aggression, anon. everyone has so far said the same thing.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2020-06-09 05:38 pm (UTC)(link)
OK but i don't understand the logic in coming to an anon comm and asking for the advice you were already considering anyway.

just cut the cord and be an adult. obviously if someone is disrespecting your identity, you realize this and are upset by it, they don't seem to think they're being offensive (calling you one of the GOOD ONES as if all people of that identity are the same), then yes, the logical reaction is to cut ties.

this isn't rocket science. OP just sounds like they want buttpats and validation. there's no grey area in this scenario to consider.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2020-06-09 05:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah! Fuck OP for coming here for support! What kind of a loser wants validation after being hurt by a friend anyway?

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2020-06-09 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)
dude, it's for the same reason that anyone wants affirmation they're making the right choice in anything big. this is a person they have a relationship with and sometimes 'grit and bear it' is advice often given. this is not one of those cases. and they maybe wanted a little extra validation because it's hard when you're in the middle of it. it's the same as why there's aita threads on reddit. sometimes you have to ask.

and so what if they want buttpats and validation. no one's forcing you to give it. jesus. you're so mad someone wants help and positivity. eat a snickers.