socksuke_uchiha ([personal profile] socksuke_uchiha) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2020-05-12 07:47 pm

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(Anonymous) 2020-06-04 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Am I the only one who doesn’t think this makes your RP partner an asshole? Maybe they’re ignorant. You can explain to them without being up in arms. Yeah it’s not your responsibility to educate another, but if you don’t this person might do the same to someone else.

(Anonymous) 2020-06-04 06:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I did explain. I even sent her some links to educational pages about bpd2. she still reacted the way she did.

(Anonymous) 2020-06-04 06:10 pm (UTC)(link)
how not to be an asshole: respond to "i don't know how long i'll be gone for" with "alright, i hope you feel better soon."

how to be an asshole: respond by badgering your partner over pretendy funtimes.

conclusion: the rp partner is an asshole.

(Anonymous) 2020-06-04 06:23 pm (UTC)(link)
yes you're the only one because you didn't read the toplevel, apparently.

'asked my rp partner for some time off.'

'badgering me for a concrete timeline.'

the fuck you need to do this? at all? let your partner unwind because we all need a break. even from hobbies.

(Anonymous) 2020-06-05 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
someone who's ignorant but not an asshole: ok but when will you be able to rp again? how long will this last?
depressed rp partner: sorry, i don't know :(
swibnaa: ok, i hope you feel better soon :(

see? there's a difference between asking and badgering

(Anonymous) 2020-06-05 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
idk anon. if someone told me they'd be taking a break from rp i would never, ever say "how long?" in any sort of question. my only reply would be to tell them "ok, hope you feel better soon". i don't understand how anyone can see someone telling them they need a break from an unimportant hobby, and then question how long it will take. that just comes off as the other person seeing them as a fun dispenser of some kind.