rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2019-01-07 07:55 pm

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(Anonymous) 2019-01-24 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
being a woman does not mean ur immune to irl virginity/lackluster sex/etc

being a woman also doesn't guarantee you'll be able to write smut scenes well even if you're exempt from the above category

+1

(Anonymous) 2019-01-24 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
i've had enough sex (and gotten one child out of it) that i know how i should react, but i've never actually gotten any pleasure out of it, so i rely heavily on one-handed pocket novels to fill in that gap of what's 'usual' for women to feel during sex. i have a nerve issue that makes sensation a problem for me and piv has always been either uncomfortable at best or painful at worst. sex does not equal happy fun times for me. thinking about it gives me more pleasure than doing it, so i'd rather rp clumsy probably not real but having fun sex than what's actually factual in sex including queefs from air pockets in vaginas being pressed out/released, occasional pee dribbles, or 'you're gonna need more lube, jim.'

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2019-01-24 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
i mean at least you're aware of how it generally works and what does/doesn't feel good

at some point the whole "i was never taught sex ed" thing can't be an excuse anymore, use the internet OP holy shit

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2019-01-24 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
anon the op is literally using the internet to ask for advice about writing it, like...right in this thread rn....

idk what more you want from them. not everybody just becomes magically good at writing smut prose, even if they "know what feels good"

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2019-01-24 07:11 am (UTC)(link)
knowing what feels good/what doesn't feel good doesn't mean you can write it or pace it

it's like knowing what's a good painting or isn't doesn't mean you can necessarily paint one yourself

given this is a writing hobby, asking for writing tips (op specifically asked what writing errors made sex sound unsexy, not general sex tips or "what feels good during sex") is pretty reasonable

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2019-01-24 07:13 am (UTC)(link)
sa, *write it or pace it well

example: half of erotica. a lot of those writers are adult men and women who've had sex and lots of it, but a lot of the writing just sucks

having sex does not a good smut writer make

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2019-01-24 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
yikes at your life if you're so unsure about your own body and sexuality that you have to ask rpanons for advice writing what feels good to women

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2019-01-24 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
that's not what op was asking