On the one hand, I do understand because it's wearisome for everything to revolve around a single character and make it seem like the Caedra show. On the other hand, if you don't like one character being the center of attention, either be more active with your own so that the attention is divided, or come up with a plot for people to interact with, or do something during the downtimes between mod plots. I haven't noticed a lot of people doing other things that will affect the entire game.