i've always seen cum as something guys write and come as a female writer's version. female writers have come in here saying they use cum and males have used come, but to me personally? it feels more like penthouse vs an actual novel. most actual books you pick up (usually written by women) have it as come, vs penthouse with their 'cum all over her tits'.

not like i'd drop a thread over it, but some people might make an assumption that it means they're playing with a guy or a creepy pervert (the two are non synonymous, but some people are dumb) and drop it over that. sorry to hear that's happened.