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anons! I want to tell you that this is actually pretty common. I've had this problem, too, and my gyno said that essentially I'm unable to relax and so penetration is painful. She set me up with a pelvic floor specialist who is basically going to put me through physical therapy to learn how to let myself relax. She said that she's seen women not even able to use a tampon become sexually active.

So if this is something you want to change, there are options!

i wonder if it's an issue of being unable to relax even when you're aroused though. i've tried to use normal sized toys while playing around and i still can't get that shit to fit in. like how can a person possibly get more relaxed and receptive to having objects shoved up their vagina than when in the middle of a masturbation session

I'm exactly the same. My gyno said what's happening is that I'm anticipating the pain and unintentionally tensing up, and then I can't consciously get myself to unclench, if that makes sense. I can be totally ready to go and actually wanting penetration but as soon as it happens, my vagina freaks out.

fucking vaginas

you had one job

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