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yeah, the person who i gave it a try for was definitely one of those types. saying you're poly and skipping around to different partners is a great way to ignore all the things wrong with your own personal character, i found out, because if one of your partners has a problem with you? who cares about trying to work on it, you can just go hang out with the 3rd/4th/5th member of the group

and i didn't realize it at the time, but if one of us did something the partner we shared didn't like, that partner would talk shit about us to the others. there was just no fucking mature discussion at all and tbh we didn't realize the extent of it because the rest of us weren't very involved with each other

it also sucked because she clearly couldn't manage her time. she'd be super obsessed with one of us for a while and give all of her attention to just that one partner, then all of a sudden you were dropped cold while she was hung up on someone else. there was like no middle ground, it was all or nothing. you'd better be around to give her all the attention she wanted when she wanted it, but by god if you wanted attention when she didn't feel like giving it then you were suddenly a jealous smothering needy terrible person. it was hurtful and annoying as fuck

god i don't miss that shit

I'm bad at this

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