rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2012-03-18 12:48 pm

Momma loves baby

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
FIRST

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
Click "Latest Page," see a completely empty post

Freak out for ten minutes before realizing what happened

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
Minutes? I mean seconds. I'm not THAT dumb.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
So you say.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
I do wonder sometimes.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
/delicately pees on the new post

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
/disgustedly wrings it out

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
bad anon! no cookie for you!

I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
I have been roleplaying with my partner for a good four months now. She's told me she loves our storyline and we're constantly PMing to come up with more ideas and plotpoints for it.

However, lately things have been different. She's not on nearly as much as she used to be. She only replies about once or twice a week. She has a lot of other characters, and I feel like she's on those accounts more than the account / character I roleplay with. I'm really attached to our roleplay, as it's my favorite one I've ever done, but I don't know what to do! Should I feel insulted?

I try to tell myself she has tons of other characters and is trying to balance them out, or that she's just not in the mood to play the one I RP with. But I don't get it. She used to be on 24/7, and now she's hardly ever on at all. It's starting to affect me in ooc, and I'm really broken up over this.

What do I do?

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
get a job

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
i just can't take these kinds of comments seriously anymore

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
/eagerly sniffs pee, lifts leg to formulate a response

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
oh my god

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
In these cases you should just move on. It sucks, but otherwise you'll just be miserable.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
/tersely yanks on your leash

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
drink

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
Drop your threads completely and find someone else to play with. Or... leave the computer and do something else.

Can't force other people to play with you. Or care.

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
leave PA statuses on aim and tell plurk about having panic attacks

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes people want to feel pursued in a relationship. Here's a few tips. See if you can figure out if she has alternate Plurk, AIM, or DW accounts and send messages letting you know that you figured out if you catch her on one of the others. You can also create a sock account and initiate contact that way and figure out if she's two-timing you or not. It's also helpful to put up a secret on RP!S accusing her of leaving you behind: ignore what other people say, the crazier the better because you want to catch her attention!

There's no way this can backfire. Let us know how it goes. Good luck!

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
Weeeell. Regressing to passive aggressiveness and rude confrontation isn't really my thing.

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
...wait, your first comment was actually serious?

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
maybe



she has rl stuff to do now

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
...wait, your second comment wasn't?

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
ITT: your character's current relationship status

Re: I could really use advice from fellow RPers...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-19 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
It's not serious, I figured it was a joke responding to a joke.