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honestly being a virgin doesn't matter nearly as much as how relaxed and turned on you are. if you're nervous or your partner is shitty at foreplay, it's gonna hurt more and you have a chance of bleeding. if you tear the vaginal corona (the hymen is not real, the corona is what that structure really is. if you want some scientific/clinical info google vaginal corona instead of hymen), then yeah, it'll be a sharp pain that fades after a few minutes and a bit of blood. you can tear the corona at any time and from things other than sex (i tore mine with my finger via explorations as a pre-teen), and even if you've had sex before. it's not that bad of a pain, so don't worry too much. the worst likelihood is that you're a little sore for a couple of hours.

the feeling is definitely weird if you've never had anything in your vagina, but if you've had fingers or tampons inserted it's not that hard to adjust to. keep in mind that your body is designed to do this, so it's not going to be THAT difficult and you're almost definitely psyching yourself out more than necessary.

after seeing some other anon's answers i should clarify that i have some unique circumstances -- it's only ever been dick-like objects and it was years before i wasn't in primary control of them, so i knew exactly what worked and didn't before i had to teach anyone else. it's also much easier for me to orgasm vaginally than from my clit or any outer stimulation, so i'm obviously built differently in some way than most of the other anons

but i maintain that you're probably psyching yourself out more than necessary

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