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i only do psls/memes with x, y and z

x is a fast tagger, we get at least 20 tags done a day

y and z are slow but i still enjoy playing with them at their own pace

z thinks i'm playing favorites

technically i DO play my otp with x buuuut there's an obvious reason why i tag them 20+ times a day (we both have no lives and love this otp)

what do i even say to z, who tags me once a day because they're clearly too busy to tag me 20+ times a day

"technically i DO play my otp with x buuuut there's an obvious reason why i tag them 20+ times a day (we both have no lives and love this otp)"

exactly this

If they're otherwise not an asshole and you want to throw z a bone, you could offer to prioritize/boomerang with them sometime if they let you know they're going to be around and able to tag more that day.

they're otherwise not an asshole

i don't know how i could offer that though, i get to my tags right away (within 10-20 minutes). if they were able to boomerang, we could

let's be honest for a minute here because my advice will be based on your answers

do you let their tags sit and instead boomerang with x? do you give them chances to boomerang with you? do you give z boring tags? do you try to push your threads with z forward, or do you give passive tags that just react to whatever they send? when was the last time you've accomplished something big/exciting with z in a thread? do you talk to them about your threads to keep them feeling fresh and relevant?

i usually do my tags within 10-20 minutes of getting them so no i don't let any of my tags sit

they don't have time to boomerang so i can't really give them a chance to boomerang with me

i think x gets my most boring tags, we play a lot of slice of life romance garbage

i always push my threads forward, i hate passive tags with a passion

our last thread? which ended a week ago, we recently started a new one but like i said, they're slow

i don't chat with z much at all, we don't have a lot of similar interests aside from this canon (we're canonmates)

If I was you, I would just keep tagging with all three of them, with basically no change in how I do things.

I might try to tag back Z more quickly if they tell me they want to tag more, or plot with them more, but that's about it.

Some people tag quickly, and some tag slowly. I think that's fine, especially since it's memes and PSLs

tbh, i had a friend like that, and honestly, z is probably just jealous that x is getting more tags so they're accusing you of playing favorites. if they're still saying you're playing favorites after you explain you tag everyone at the same rate, it's almost definitely just jealousy on their part.

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