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it's depressing to know that nearly every woman in my family has been /sexually assaulted (and that includes me)

anyone else feel me?

One sister raped in the military. Another sister cornered and almost raped. I was molested as a child. That's three out of five women, me included, in my immediate family who've experienced sexual trauma and whose stories I know.

(insert mra troll comment here)

just getting this out of the way

i don't really want to go into the details, but two women in my family were assaulted by two men in the family (one immediate, one related by marriage).

as for myself, i've been felt up, assaulted, and even stalked (and had to go to the police station because i was a minor at the time and it was super fucked up what he wrote me). it's minor in comparison to what my other family members have experienced, but fucked up none the less. it really saddens and angers me that we have to "expect" and fear this bullshit.

Same with my family. Stay strong, sister.

it's that way in more families than we care to admit. i;m the lucky one, but even my brother was molested.

I swear, I was sexually assaulted and told some close older female friends and relatives and every single one of them could relate as they all had been assaulted to some degree as well.

i wish i hadn't told my close relatives. when i did their response was "no you weren't". even though i know two of them have faced either molestation as a child or assault as an adult.

As far as I know, I'm the only one in my family. My sister has a paralyzing fear of it happening to her though, even though she doesn't know about my assault. She had trouble going out in public for years.

A ton of my friends have been assaulted or harassed though. I can only think of one or two who haven't been.

i've been, my sister has, my mother has, my aunt has, numerous cousins of mine have been.

that's just in my family. my friend's group has maybe one or two women in it that haven't been.

we're fucking fierce over keeping it that way.

Both my mom and my dad.

And I guess to add to this, my mom is so quiet about it that I didn't even know about it until I was 22 and I learned it from dad instead...

my mom as a kid, my sister while drugged, and me in the dark by a stranger

yyyyep

All the women in my family have been harassed, and all of them have been in abusive relationships. Not sure about sexual assault. But it's posts like this that make me wary of even thinking about romantic relationships. :(

you don't have to be in a romantic relationship for it to happen to you tho. da from the rest of the thread, but i was sexually abused by my female best friend for years

i've never been abused/assaulted by someone i was in a romantic relationship. it was always friends or random drunk assholes

Piping in that it wasn't a relationship but a friend that turned out to not be much of a friend at all.

my mother and I have both been raped. I've never told her, though. only a few close friends know about me and i'm not sure if she's ever told anyone other than me about herself.

the last statistic I saw placed studies pointing towards 1 in 2 women being victims of sexual assault, rather than the previously believed 1 in 3. I don't think this is because rape is happening more, but because more and more women are willing to talk about it and are being educated about the fact that saying "no" a few times and then acquiescing out of fear isn't the same as giving consent.

idk if this counts, but i remember being 13 and a friend's dad making weird comments to me/watching porn while i was in the room

You're all idiots except for me

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