rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2014-11-22 11:34 pm

Basically my kitchen is Wankgate

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Re: ITT relationship woes

(Anonymous) 2014-11-23 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm having a really difficult time getting over my last relationship because after the better part of three years, this person just up and lost interest in me because i don't need to be "fixed" anymore, and they more or less admitted that they're drawn to drama/dysfunction, hence why things petered out towards the end.

on the one hand, i'm glad that i've been working on myself and am now in a much healthier state, mentally. i know that i'm better off without them if i have to be a mess in order for them to stay around.

on the other hand, i feel utterly worthless and horrible, and this relationship had a million red flags beforehand and i ignored them all because when it was good, it was really good. i feel like i deserve to feel as shitty as i do, and i don't think i can be friends with this person after all of that. it hurts too much. and that makes me feel even worse.

Re: ITT relationship woes

(Anonymous) 2014-11-23 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
you don't deserve to feel like that, anon

also feel free to not be friends with them

Re: ITT relationship woes

(Anonymous) 2014-11-24 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
thank you

and yeah, i don't think i can because it's been a month and i can't get over this. the last time i talked to them made me so furious that i asked them to leave me alone for a while