rpanonmod ([personal profile] rpanonmod) wrote in [community profile] rpanons2014-09-25 09:55 am

Does my cardigan look okay?

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(Anonymous) 2014-09-26 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
it really sucks when your psl partner doesn't want to play certain characters/ships anymore because idk maybe they're grew out of it. i keep trying to throw hints about what i want, saying it outright 'i want to play this,' but i can never hook them. they're literally the only person i can play these things with it because they involve ocs. i've given up bringing up the matter and it's just a bit of a downer since we used to play these characters all the time a few years back.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-26 03:18 pm (UTC)(link)
let it go, anon

it does suck but if you've said it plainly and they haven't responded (not even with an 'oh I'd like to when [life thing] gives me the time/brain again) then it's over

sometimes muses die on people, and it sounds like you had a good run

also I guarantee you they are aware of and uncomfortable with all your hints asking for something they aren't able or willing or interested in doing anymore, and it's making them feel guilty and want to talk to you less about anything

stop pressuring them, cherish the memories, and find new things you get joy out of playing, with them or others, and at least you won't scuttle the friendship