I've actually seen on this very community in threads where anons have mentioned that they would love to join Aather, but the queue makes it impossible. You are saying that people don't want to join the game and most of the apps are seconds and thirds, but you don't understand that there are people who would love to play in an active and amazing game, but are unable to. I see it all over the plurks of various players. Their friends think Aather sounds amazing, but the idea of waiting to get in for months on end is not feasible.

I think people are pretty balanced in the game, though. The implication that people need to "find balance" is also troubling. This should not be a matter of pointing fingers, but finding a solution so that people can get into the game.