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and be specific

don't just say "i want all the things" lay out some very specific kinks you'd like to play. you will get takers.

cr meme goes up on the 13th http://arielmods.dreamwidth.org/18480.html

will people be weirded out by more directness? because i'm willing to list the major kinks that i want to rp out as long as it doesnt cost me cr because people are like w h o a LMAO

Not in my experience. People are pretty good about looking at the kinks to look for things they want, and just not commenting/thinking about the others, as far as I can tell.

But I've been open since day one, so maybe there are people who side-eyed and avoided me because of it. I just doubt it.

can't guarantee that no one will be weirded out, but the only way you're going to find someone to play out the more exotic kinks with is to put them out there.

when i go through the cr meme, i just keep going if a kink isn't my thing, but i don't judge or avoid the player or character. i just don't volunteer to play it out.

if you saw someone list some kinks you weren't into but also ones that you were into, would you still comment to them? because there are more generally-accepted kinks that i like to play, and i definitely want to try to get the most cr that i can rather than playing with a small group of people who like the harder kinks that i advertise

i would comment because my experience with ariel is that players are very respectful of other people's limits.

if you listed vore, somnophilia, and light bondage i might respond to you saying that i'd love to try out a combination of bondage and somnophilia, but vore's not really my thing. if you offer some intriguing options in your cr post, i might even go and take a look at your kinks list and mention that i saw that you're also interested in chastity devices and ask if you might want to try combining that with the somnophilia and bondage.

tl;dr yes i'd answer if your offering caught my attention

Absolutely.

I have regularly skimmed over the fact that people list, let's say watersports, as a kink to focus on, you know, the things I actually want to play out. I trust them to not bring up watersports in our thread just because I said I wanted to play out, say, breathplay. So it wouldn't bother me at all that they enjoy a kink I don't.

I wouldn't mind if someone was interested in things I wasn't. I would just make it very clear what I did and did not want right off the bat. I don't imagine I will ever find anyone who likes everything that I like. I have also had many people respond to my comments with things like "I would like to do X and Y with you" or "I'm interested in everything but Z" and I never took any offense. I really think the key is to just get out there and get started.

Obviously I can only speak for myself but you are far more likely to catch my interest if you list specific things you want to play. I go shopping on the CR meme. I think about things that I want to do and I look for them or I see something that hadn't occurred to me but it looks good. If you have a generic "up for anything" on your comment I'm very likely to pass by it entirely unless I already know you.

People will love you for it. You might not get a lot of replies but you'll definitely get some interest and people will remember those for later. Typically though most people put down a few softer kinks and one or two harder ones to give people options.

If you're worried though, look over other people's kink lists and see what they've got going on. I have a few characters in game and the lists are completely different for them as ICly they wouldn't be into the same things and trust me, at least one has things that are typical "omg no!" for most people.

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