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da, but i'm jumping in here.

it isn't that i, personally, think he was speaking the gospel truth in that confession. whether he's a real rapist or not isn't why i want him gone from places like tlh.

it's that he knowingly said he was a child rapist, that he described it in loving, rose-tinted detail, framed every part of that story (whether true or not, and to whatever degree) in such a way that he was obviously seeing himself as a predator and delighted in that role while denigrating those he framed as victims. then, on top of it, expected sympathy for his role in all of it, real or imagined.

that shit is disgusting, he is an unsafe person to have around, and banning him from everything is not too harsh or hysteria. it's keeping other people, children, and victims safe from someone who glorifies being a predator not only in rp but in his own version of his real life.

What you take to be "loving, rose-tinted detail" reads to me as anything but, anon. I see no expression of delight in that post. I do see him assigning himself guilt, but I also see him assigning himself guilt in the context of a culture that certainly encourages one who has had experiences of sex with other children/siblings that to blame themselves for them.

Either way, I have seen absolutely no evidence that he now aspires to coerce prepubescent children into sex IRL (because what people want to RP is not now and never has been valid evidence of what they want to do IRL). So if you consider him disgusting that's fine, but don't confuse that with him being an "unsafe person to have around" because those two things are not the same. And it's the lack of differentiation between them that smacks of hysteria, tbh.

I see no expression of delight in that post. I do see him assigning himself guilt, but I also see him assigning himself guilt in the context of a culture that certainly encourages one who has had experiences of sex with other children/siblings that to blame themselves for them.

well, of course he assigns himself some guilt, and of course people who commit acts like this are pressured to blame themselves and feel guilt. YOU SHOULD FEEL GUILTY FOR ABUSING SOMEONE ELSE, NO MATTER HOW OLD YOU WERE WHEN YOU DID IT. that is a perfectly reasonable reaction, and by no means does feeling guilt absolve him of the consequences of his actions.

as for expressions of delight... did you miss him talking about how much he enjoyed what he did, to the point that he continued even though he knew it was wrong? did you miss where he made the assumption that one of his victims didn't speak to him anymore because he decided, finally, to stop abusing them and really they had wanted him to continue?

do you not see at all how thinking that way about his own life and experiences changes how other people are going to react to his rp? it's one thing to test these kinds of thought processes out in a relatively safe environment where no one is actually getting hurt, but what he's doing is entirely different. from everything i've seen him say, he sees nothing wrong with the mindset of an abuser as long as he can get away with it. he identifies with it enough to claim it as his actual mindset irl, and then uses that mindset to play out more abuse with victims of abuse.

he is literally playing out not just a fantasy, but a set of real-life circumstances he has already lived to some extent.

how can you not see how that's wrong?

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