aw, thank you anon. i'm not here to drag anybody through the mud, especially when it's easy enough to discuss my silly problems without naming names.

mmm, i might do that! since it seems that i'm not the only one taking issue with their approach and it's better for them to hear about it now rather than after it becomes entrenched and something they can't really rectify. my only real difficulty would be gathering up threads to use as evidence (and the fact i am balls at critting) but that can be solved by blocking out a little free time to go thread-diving.

i probably will, now that i think about it. easiest way to solve a pet peeve is to say something about it.