adding to this, "legitimate" sources can also be grudgewankers. i know a couple of people who are obsessed with decades old drama from when they were refused threads in games on livejournal and still try to drag the people involved and even complain to mod teams to get the players prebanned. mod teams should ask for recent evidence of wrongdoing before they make a judgement imho.
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adding to this, "legitimate" sources can also be grudgewankers. i know a couple of people who are obsessed with decades old drama from when they were refused threads in games on livejournal and still try to drag the people involved and even complain to mod teams to get the players prebanned. mod teams should ask for recent evidence of wrongdoing before they make a judgement imho.