Has anyone had experiences with pre-planning ships in general? Personally, I don't see the appeal in that because I feel it could be diasastrous for all parties involved. Say you and your partner planned for Bob and Suzie to be a couple. Then you find out that not only do Bob and Suzie have little to no chemistry, but Bob has better threads with Mark and Sandy with plenty of fun moments and sizzle between them. And none of that was pre-planned!

Basically, spontaneity works best in my experience.

I'm curious to know if anyone has been successful in pre-planned ships, or if it ended poorly.