fwiw "even in sex games" is borderline can of worms comment, because rape isn't about sex, even though some people do sexualize rape roleplay and treat it like a kink. which is fine and whatever go ahead and play what kinks you want i don't care if it's rape or deli mustard or feet, but deli mustard and feet aren't crimes, and the crime aspect is why it doesn't fly in games, not the kink aspect.