ngl this sounds like they hate you for whatever reason and is trying to use your character as an excuse. you may not have done anything, but if they're excluding you that much just for your character, they probably hate that character enough to treat you the same.
i would just look for another game. this kind of borders bullying if it's not outright doing it and saying it's for ic reasons, especially if they're planning on recruiting others to do the same.
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i would just look for another game. this kind of borders bullying if it's not outright doing it and saying it's for ic reasons, especially if they're planning on recruiting others to do the same.